Some women talk about being able to let go more easily in the dark. Between excessive modesty and exhibitionism, the idea of making love in the dark, as well as being totally naked, is a real challenge for many women.
Without going back to the Victorian era, it was only in the 19th century that modesty, known as chastity when speaking of a woman, relabelled vulnerability as a form of desire. All the discomfort in the face of sexual reality, in the face of the rules of society, gave rise to a conditioning that is still visible today. Faced with this apprehension affecting personal dignity and self-respect, it is very often associated with a feeling of shame, which, consciously or not, is often associated with a specific moment in our lives.
When our complexes don't help us:
Having some curves that we might find too generous, breasts that are too small, scars of life as well as mastectomies and cesarean sections, a certain kind of modesty, the darkness can reassure us. To you Gentlemen, if you are reading this article, use subtlety in order to gently decomplex and reassure your partner to subtly lift these inhibitions.
When having sex in the dark becomes a fantasy
We are not sorry and we like to put things into perspective.
Twilight can create an atmosphere which is particularly conducive to the imagination and where fantasy finds a prominent place.
Learning to play in the dark can be an exhilaration of the senses, where stimulating sensations such as the touch of the skin under your fingers, or such as the sound of a moaning, can often increase sex drive and desire.
So. Ladies and Gentlemen, faced with this clear, obscure, complex atmosphere of fantasy or modesty, try to find a compromise.
Pleasure is boosted as far as the eye can see! When our brain gives way to the imagination, the mind travels much more easily, revealing new pleasures.
A 2013 study revealed that 63% of French people have sex in complete darkness.
If love makes you blind, the possibility of erotic games such as being blindfolded and various other naughty scenarios, have pushed many couples to go beyond visual perceptions, thus experiencing unprecedented pleasures with an awareness of their bodies and of their environment.
Hoping that this article will have switched your lights on without blinding the senses!
Making love in the dark can be an opportunity to feel your body again, where you will discover the delights of your particularly enlightened senses.
In conclusion, going blind in a different atmosphere will make you travel as far as the eye can see ..
