For some it’s just a thought, for others it’s obsessive.
In this article, we will see why our first love is an integral part of our life.
There are several first times. You may remember your first car, your first day at school, your first drink and of course your first love. Yet let's face it, it is still quite rare to remember your first car, in any case, we don’t tend to be too nostalgic about that. So why do many of you, often in a relationship, have this feeling that you missed out on something, a much more important relationship that you had with your ex, even with your first love?
Remembering our first love moves us in an intrinsically unique way.
This memory is often accompanied by a sense of wonder, intrigue and excitement. It is obvious that even if your first love did not last, it will be a part of you for the rest of your life. Falling in love with your ex again, is a way of revisiting the past, or even looking back at youth, but in fact, did you know there are ways to get your ex back?
But how can you live with these thoughts, without them becoming obsessive and problematic?
When we think about our first love, there is a mixture of emotions that we feel that is sometimes very difficult to explain, and yet it has been 1 year, 5, 10, 40 years or more. So why do we still think about them today?
The only thing that rivals the intensity of your first love is your first grief. Often these feelings are surrounded by memories of the same person.
Over time, thoughts of your first love don't just refer to mere memories, but to where you were at that time in your life. It can bring you back to memories of your youth, a time that may seem much easier to look back on through the eyes of an adult. Besides representing your youth, your first love can also remind you of a time when the possibilities seemed endless and much of life was new and exciting and so easy !!!
The main reason you won't be able to forget your first love is that no matter what, we all have one and only one person who we qualify as THE first love.
This wonderful event that happens only once in a lifetime, and that’s what makes it so special. I can't tell you who you will love later or who you love today or how you will grow, but all I know is that your first love will always be your first, and for the rest of your life.
Many of you have asked yourself the following question: is love or a relationship still possible with my first love? Well it has already happened, and will happen again, that great stories are reborn of a love that we have not necessarily ever forgotten.