The purpose of this article is not to stereotype all single women or men.
Let's start with the most obvious reason: many people are single simply because they want to be. And unless they suddenly fall in love, there is no reason for this to change. Did you know that it's your subconscious that drives you to do this? We are all actors in our life.
Over time, singles tend to retreat further and further into their comfort zones. Modern women are increasingly successful, fulfilled and self-reliant, which is an extremely positive development for being single.
To know the reason that you are single, you should know to which category of singles you belong ...
-You have not got over your old relationship
You cannot detach yourself from your old relationship because you have been deeply involved, it is a relationship that has left its marks, so that this break-up has left you preoccupied with doubts about love. Or you have been with a person for a very short time and 3 weeks later, it's a new story with an entirely different person. Take the time to question yourself. Your being single is not inevitable, it is a phase in your life from which it is necessary to learn lessons, to learn how to fully appreciate it
Your ego took a big hit
Yes, the ego also has its influence to play in the state of being single. From your adolescence onwards, you plan your life, and this is often by focusing on the first big love that you experience. Time has an impact on your decisions and your choices. You are in a hurry to find a companion. But at the end of the day, you find yourself being disappointed every time. But it is not your fault, it is rather the social norms that impose this situation on us. Stop searching right now for the perfect companion, let time take its course, it will become your ally in your quest.
You suffer from emotional co-dependence
You rely on your morals, your beliefs, your relationship with your parents ... For you, all this has had an impact on your relationship status. As soon as you are in a relationship, the idea that your partner might slip through your fingers haunts you. As a result, you are the puppet of your emotions. Stop! By doing so you risk missing out on good things. Do not try to focus on futile details, ihey will take over your mind. Sometimes we suffer from our personal or emotional past which leads to emotional co-dependency.
You like your independence
You are a unique case. You love your freedom and you find it difficult to get away from it, even if you often want to snuggle into a darling's arms, you prefer and preach independence. You like being single!
You appreciate your freedom to do what you want, when you want it, and the idea of having to compromise with another person does not suit you at all at the moment. It's understandable, life as part of a couple in a relationship is not always plain sailing!
