Let's get to the heart of the matter, what is peaking?
Let's start by describing the practice of peaking, which is also known as edging, or surfing. This frenetic technique is based on the control of the orgasm. The purpose of it is to slow down orgasm, not allowing it to overwhelm you in the first instance. By controlling the orgasm, it is possible to achieve greater satisfaction when it finally does happen. The combination of a slower pace and a more gentle movement are the keys to success. Peaking is usually referred to for men, but it is also achievable for women too.
Controlling that orgasmic rush takes practice:
Guys: the point of order is to concentrate on your feelings, feeling the wave of pleasure rising then falling and rising again until the inevitable ecstasy. By inhaling deeply, and contracting your perineum, then releasing it while exhaling, the flood of hormones then hits your entire body. If your erection decreases, it is not a problem, do not worry. Remember that the quality of an orgasm does not necessarily depend on the rigidity of the erection. But if you start feeling stressed, do not hold back on caressing your partner.
Exploring this sexual energy will introduce you to an additional type of orgasm. Yes, there are all kinds, depending on the conditions of practice, the practice itself and the individual in front of you! That having been said, peaking is also absolutely achievable solo with masturbation. After beginning to masturbate, several alternatives are available to you, either by "stopping the wank" and then resuming the oscillation, or by squeezing on your penis, prolonging the moment of enjoyment and contraction of the body. When you find yourself on the verge of the eruption, reapply the oscillations to regain control and finally ejaculate in a satisfactory manner.
And one for the girls…
Masturbation in two stages can be invigorating! For example, a first clitoral massage with your finger (or as you are used to doing) launches a first orgasm. If your appetite is still not satiated, go for the second phase! Repeat the same practice, rubbing your clitoris or using whichever way you wish to masturbate this time contracting your perineum. You will see that there is an implacable difference compared to the first phase, of the feeling of excitement and orgasm. This will be tinged with a release and a far more intense explosion of your whole being. And, if you are interested in orgasms, ladies, then read our article on having orgasms for sure!
