Considered above all as the prerogative of women, bisexuality still manages to resist prejudice. A recent study published by IFOP shows that all women could be bisexual. Among the results of the study, it is indicated that 18% of women have already been attracted to another woman and that 1 in 10 women have already had a sexual experience with a woman. Unfortunately the preconceived ideas about bisexuality have eroded this study.
Faced with a semi-libertine pact such as the vision of the throuple, here you are, gentlemen, not faced with a dilemma, but perhaps faced with an opportunity that could well spice up your relationship.
Having an awareness that for the average person, fidelity is defined as having respect and commitment to another person, we have seen that even in couples who are swingers, there is a form of fidelity. Let's therefore emphasize bisexuality not as infidelity, but as sexual freedom, leading us to consider the non-monogamous relationships emphasized by bisexual women. Bisexuality is also not an opportunity to satisfy one's Sapphic ways, even if sentimental connections to several people also exist, such as polyamory, better known as polygamy.
You have two ways of experiencing things and managing the difference
The perception of experiencing this as a betrayal is perhaps difficult to bear and the disagreements between you and your partner will create a gap that can lead to a breakup in the longer term.
If you are able to keep an open mind, apart from all jealousy, which is useless within a relationship, try to avoid any prejudice on bisexuality.
But beware gentlemen, bisexual does not mean a three-way relationship.
The lesbian/bisexual act still has a dominant place in the realms of male pleasure.
Where the problem comes into play is when we mark the difference between a man facing a bisexual woman compared to a man facing a lesbian.
If your wife is simply bisexual, she can have a love story parallel to your own legitimate relationship.
However, if your wife is a lesbian, then she becomes your equal, which, let’s face it, creates risks in the long term, that can lead your relationship to a breakup.
A few years ago, when the homophobic climate was considerable, many stories were experienced hidden in the shadows. Since then, pop culture has become a bisexual woman's best friend. Just remember the electric duo Britney Spears and Madonna, during the Music Video Awards. The legend of this memorable kiss has since entered the history of pop music, shook up many prejudices and de-stigmatized female bisexuality, which today still makes many men fantasize.
Far from Freud's Oedipal sexual theories and far from swinging and other sexual practices, the thing to remember is that one does not just become bisexual overnight…
