Sexual practices, even the kiss have many particular flavors in the eyes of the Candaulist. How can someone feel intense emotion by watching his wife kiss another man?
Candaulist, swingers, free lovers. you name it, here we are faced with a very different kind of excitement, one of sharing that is intrinsically linked to voyeurism, where even Plato left us a considerable philosophical work on that subject, entitled "The myth of King Candaules,” which sheds a very explicit light on this practice.
Fantasies reach their peak!
We have all heard of sexual practices with interchangeable partners. We now present you with a fetish, that is halfway between voyeurism and swinging, a sexual practice where fantasies reach their peak.
Candaulism is a sexual practice in which a person feels arousal by watching their partner have sex with one or more people.
Even if it is not always easy to get naked, Jerome and Vanessa, a young couple, tell us about their first experience and the particularity the enjoyment of candaulism.
It was after 3 years of living together and going through the Kamasutra, accompanied by a drop in their sex drive, that they looked for new practices to revive sexual desire in their relationship, thus embarking on the adventures of BDSM and swinging. They were to take the plunge 2 years later, by inviting a friend of Jerome’s round to the house. "In the middle of dinner, I decided to blindfold myself and my partner, and I started to undress her, that's when I brought our friend in and we two began to caress her. I put Steve's penis in Vanessa's hands and invited Vanessa to give him a blowjob. With so much passion and excitement, Steve ejaculated prematurely, so I put my wife on the couch and took her, and feeling very strong excitement of this first time, I also ejaculated quickly. It was so good, we can't wait to do it again. I am madly in love with my wife, and I am even happier to know that she is sexually fulfilled.”
Sharing and boosting sexual desire
For candaulist couples, sharing their fantasies to mutually stimulate their libidos is commonplace. The fantasy that uses a third person allows easier projection. In all of these fantasies, we could also mention: adventures with a person of color or simply making love with several men simultaneously.
Candaulist fantasies have become more acceptable and accepted, nevertheless remaining a questionable vision where everyone has their own fantasy; and if the man has candaulist desires and his partner shares them, they are not necessarily required to take action. Fantasies should not be taken literally, even if everyone is free to do as they see fit, satisfying their fantasies remains a personal choice. Ladies let it be said, there is no need to embark on the adventure because it only pleases the gentleman.
