Here are 7 tips to bring back sexual desire without excluding your family life.But what is happening in the sex department, how does it work for couples?
Many couples go through an important milestone in their sex lives; it is important not to let family life take precedence over the relationship.
Sex life? What sex life?
You are a mom and your life is relatively busy, your days are getting complicated and very tiring. You barely have time to think about your own needs, your own desires and even less so, to do anything about them.
It may seem that your own desires don't matter, children come first and you should do whatever it takes to care for them. Make no mistake, your needs are important and neglecting them is not good for anyone, not for you or for your partner, let alone for your children. Of course you can't do everything you did before you had the children, life has changed and pleasure now comes in different ways. But nevertheless, you remain a woman with the desires of a woman, and for you to be fulfilled, they must also be fulfilled.
But how do you find the time and energy for sex, when there are so many other things that need your attention?
It takes a little more planning and effort than it used to, but you have to tell yourself that it can happen and that it is well worth the effort.
So how can you have sex more often? Here are some little tips to revive the sexuality in your relationship and to boost your sex drive!
Here are 7 sex tips to help revive desire, without excluding your family life
1. Make it a priority and it will happen.
Certainly this is a priority for the survival of your relationship, but above all, the key word is tenderness. You will need to get to know yourself again, your man will have to relearn how make his partner comfortable again by using caresses and with a lot of finesse.
Patience would also be the key word in this situation and yes, a new way of organizing things is also called for.
2. Find a time that works
Children may wake up early in the morning, get up immediately to watch a video, or just play in their bedroom. A time and space is surely reserved for you while the children also indulge in different kinds of fun and at a different time of day: your mission is to identify these moments.
3. Do things that make you think of sex
It can be difficult to switch from caring mom to sex-seeking wife, and you may need a little help to do so. You should discuss this with your partner. Watching a sexy movie, reading erotic fiction together, writing a sexy note to your partner, thinking about a time when you had superb sex, reliving those moments that are good for you can boost your libido and give way to fantasies.
4. Take a shower together
There is something very erotic about getting naked and being naked in the shower body to body.
5. Expect interruptions and don't give way to discouragement
You may start to kiss and you hear your baby cry or just one of the children calling you. You try to ignore it, but you can't.
So, you are going to enjoy this moment while keeping in mind what you were about to start. Try to see this as a diversion that can only increase your sexual appetite.
6. Don't wait until you are in bed to start having sex
When you've been together for a while, it's easy to pick up habits, like falling into a deep sleep as soon as your head hits the pillow, and sometimes these are the habits you need to break in order to start your sex life up again. Sex can happen anywhere, so use the spaces you have.
7. And the most important thing you need to do is not to give up!
You can find a way to do it. Know that both of your desires are important and that you will perform better when they have been satisfied. An unsatisfied desire remains a deficiency, as long as it is not fulfilled.
