Where are you with your #sexuality? Let yourself go, because this article supports you where it feels good!
Are you looking for a way to spice up your day-to-day life?
If you too have a lot of questions that need answering, here's something to help you revise your lessons...
No doubt you've heard of the G-spot, but let's start with some history first.
Our columnist has gone into full on sexual research mode, in order to get a complete set of testimonies and give you THE ANSWER.
Where does its name come from?
This famous center of pleasure is a discovery of a rather avant-garde German sexologist and pioneering scientist Ernst Gräfenberg, gynaecologist and researcher, who left his initial for the “G-spot”.
This is now a discovery that is almost 60 years old now... Dr GRAFENBERG's observations have since been confirmed by other researchers. It was not until 1981 that this area was called "the G-spot".
But is it really and exclusively about sex, or could we be talking about cultural fears where feminism is basically defined as women no longer needing men??? There is no real consensus on the subject of the G-spot. Several studies advocate its existence and others its non-existence, but these are all called into question here. Nevertheless, our columnist has come up against serious dilemmas where scientific evidence is not conclusive and yet... everyone agrees that the vagina has areas whose tactile stimulation is intensely erogenous and can lead to orgasm.
Daniel Keenan Savage, known more familiarly as Dan Savage, journalist, and speaker, is known for his column Savage Love. He treats sexuality with humour and gave me some food for thought. It is strange to observe the persistence of this cultural obsession in the quest for the magic button that pushes all women to enjoy orgasm solely through penetrative sex.
He's a great guy, but hey, we're not going to spend our life playing touchy feely....
How to find your G-spot?
Well, that’s the eternal question, but how to put your finger on it or on something else..lol?
The walls of the vagina contain a multitude of erogenous zone. Among them is therefore the G-spot (erectile tissue).
The G-spot is an erectile periuteral glandular tissue, it is located under the bladder, halfway between the entrance and the bottom of the vagina, behind the pubic bone, so about 4 centimeters in from the entrance.
It can be distinguished from the rest of the vagina. On the upper wall you will very quickly notice an uneven or ridged area noticeably different from the typical smooth walls of the vagina. It is a relatively rough tissue, taking the shape of a bean, corresponding to the Skene glands, or “female prostate”.
At first touch, this may surprise some women. Each woman being unique, it could also be right at the entrance of the vagina, or at the very bottom.
So, it's up to you to push your investigations forwards as you wish...
Did you know...?
Injection of the G-spot; The natural substance hyaluronic acid, present in the dermis (a layer of skin between the epidermis and subcutaneous layers) can be injected into the G-spot. This can, among other things, rehydrate tissue in this area. This can increase the area of the G-spot and can achieve more sensitivity in this area.
Rehydrating, rejuvenating, and plumping the female prostate is still pretty taboo as far as surgeries go.
And yet a hyaluronic acid injection could make your G-spot able to be more easily stimulated, and thus facilitate the improvement of sexual disorders.
This surgical intervention can allow the rediscovery and amplify the ability to experience orgasm.
The good news: the result is immediate
The plumping of the G-spot inside the vagina is quite feasible.
The bad news: the result only lasts between 8 and 12 months.
The G-spot may be more or less sensitive according to each woman. Its erotic potential is work in progress.
Reconsider foreplay by practicing this type of inner massage to develop your erotic sensitivity. A caring partner can also include it in your foreplay, to enrich the erotic quality (Kamasutra) of your liaison.
However, gynaecologists agree on at least one point: you can experience orgasm without knowing where your G-spot is, or if you have already found it. If that can reassure some of you...
We understand that the G-spot is the Holy Grail of pleasure and female sexual stimulation.
Do not believe the urban legend which describes it as being untraceable or even non-existent.
Don't believe the sceptics and killjoys anymore!
Scientists have proven that the G-spot exists. It would be a shame not to take advantage of it, wouldn't it...?
And of course, you need to stop putting pressure on yourself to reach orgasm.
Regarding sexuality, have you ever heard of Zen sexuality? This can bring a little magic into your daily life, some comfort, and some hope. A good option for any kind of sexual issues. And a real booster for limp libidos!
